3) Date you first mark as getting together with your spouse John Pennycuff:
March 19, 1991 as a couple
October 1, 2003 as domestic partners
February 5, 2004 as husbands. :- )
4) City/state where you live currently:
Live together in Chicago, Illinois
Some college but did not graduate.
7) Did you serve in the U.S. military?
8) How do you describe your sexuality and your gender?
9) Do you have children and/or grandchildren?
10) If you are GLBT, please describe when you first “knew”:
Attracted to boys in grammar school.
11) Who did you first “come out” to and when?
I came out to my softball/football friends at Congress Pizzeria in late ‘80s, and all were pretty cool except my best friend, George, who did a little soul searching but eventually did stand by me.
12) What troubles did you face as a GLBT person?
I worried about losing friends and I did get fired for being "too gay" at a previous messenger company. Our home has also been targeted for hate mail and we have had numerous rainbow flags either stolen or destroyed, and have been verbally and physically threatened on occasion.
13) If you are not GLBT, describe how you came to be an ally:
If John and I weren't queer, we would probably have been allies anyway. :- )
14) Did you have mentors in the Chicago GLBT community?
My friend Steve helped me to "come out" and introduced me to the Bistro Too nightclub.
15) Involvement in organizations (GLBT and/or mainstream):
Ambiente Pa’lante (founder)
Association of Latino Men for Action/ALMA (board member)
Chicago Organizing Committee for National Latino/a Lesbian and Gay Organization/LLEGO Conference (volunteer)
Logan’s Queer News (co-founder)
Queer Nation (volunteer)
AIDS Coalition to Unleash Power/ACT UP Chicago (volunteer)
City of Chicago Advisory Council on LGBT Issues (volunteer)
Neighbors for Rey Colon (volunteer)
Unity Park Advisory Council (volunteer)
Emergency Clinic Defense Coalition (volunteer)
Logan Square Gay Lesbian Bisexual and Transgender Neighbors (volunteer)
Equal Marriage NOW! (volunteer)
NEIU GLBA (volunteer)
Coalition Against Bashing (volunteer)
Donor to many organizations and campaigns
16) When you were coming out, what were your favorite Chicago GLBT bars?
Bistro Too (late ‘80s-early ‘90s), and Paris Dance (early ‘90s)
17) What were the key issues faced in the GLBT community when you first came out?
HIV/AIDS, anti-gay violence, and discrimination.
18) What issues do you see as key in the GLBT community today?
Couples rights, Don't Ask/Don't Tell, and acceptance of LGBTs of color in their respective communities.
19) How have AIDS and/or other health issues impacted your life personally?
Danny Sotomayor was my inspiration for becoming an activist, and I have lost a few friends and loved ones to the disease and other health-related issues. I believed in the early years that we could stop AIDS from taking a huge toll and was reason became active in ACT UP.
20) How would you describe the “diversity” within the Chicago GLBT community?
This community has a long way to go before it is truly diverse. It is still pretty segregated based on gender, income, and race.
21) If you consider yourself a “political” activist, how do you define this?
John and I have volunteered in political campaigns and have lobbied legislators for various issues – AIDS, gender identity, equal rights, etc. And we also take to the street to protest if we have to.
22) Describe what you feel your personal legacy is to the Chicago GLBT community.
My goal has been to make this world a better place for LGBTs than when I entered it, and I'm most proud of my work to help pass the gender identity amendment. I think I have kept my integrity intact in the work I have done.
Getting married was a high point of our lives!!
23) This project is also about “defining moments.” Please discuss some of those in your life.
Getting married in San Francisco; coming out to my father and mother; passing the gender identity amendment; losing a good friend to a drunk driver; losing my father; losing friends Gerardo and Ken.
24) Additional comments and memories.
Gerardo Montemayor was a hell of an activist and we miss him!!!!!!!!!!! Kudos to Lisa Pickens and Neena Hemmady and WAC (Women’s Action Coalition) for all their hard work over the years.